i'm talking about the song from the band Hinder. yep. that song they play a lot on the airwaves if you got your car stereo on on the way to school or work.

he told me before that he can relate to the song and that i was the "girl on the phone" and that he wished i was the... okay, if you know the song, you'll get the drift. i never did think it was a great song. it shot to popularity because A LOT of people are unfaithful--that is my opinion. my mistake at that fateful day on 2004 was that i let myself think that it was just a "come and tell me how you are, for old times' sake."

the repercussions were great--a feast of good and bad, and i'm looking at the leftovers right now.

i believe that you can only be faithful with the one you are with if you cease to think A LOT about how your exes are--it's normal to be a little curious. i mean, it is logical because after all, they should not matter anymore because he or she is an EX already, right? which is why current gfs and bgfs should not get jell-o over the ex AND it is only right for the other to assure the significant other that there's nothing to worry about. but if you HAVE to assure the other over and over and still get into trouble, something is wrong and you have not reached the root cause yet.

that song , where praise for literary value is concerned, is not really er... great BUT it appealed to a lot of people because it hits right home. it does not take a genius to figure out that that guy is so not over the ex yet and he jumps right into a relationship with the unsuspecting "girl-in-the-next-room-who-shouldn't-hear-us-talking-on-the-phone."

what does it take for a person to be faithful? i say the answer is still love. and the person who promises you undying love and then promises it to another is really illiterate in that universal language we all try to learn or speak fluently everyday.

conclusion on that song: wrap things up before you move on to the next set of promises, vows, and all that stuff, to avoid further issues. and you won't be singing about lips-of-some-angel because once you can say you can relate to that song, trouble is brewing and it's not gonna be a piece of angel cake for you.

if you are my man AND you sing thats ong wholeheartedly, well, *theme from the Psycho movie starts playing*